Plymouth
May 13, 2012
Ancestry research
To me, cemeteries in Devon were like adventure parks. It was fun to see so many family names, whether related or not, and thrilling to find stones for actual ancestors. Each new piece of information is like finding a puzzle piece. And, after the devastating loss of Glenn, feeling connected to my ancestors gave me some comfort. It was a privilege to be in this place where family members were born, lived and died, and maybe that was one reason why I felt so at home in Devon.
This was across town beyond the train station.
Don't remember what this building was that I saw in passing.
I came to a large park, Central Park, and walked along an edge of it. Magpies seem to be everywhere in England.
This sign is at the front of the cemetery.
However, I came in through the back but even then didn't immediately grasp the size of the place. I didn't know which family members, if any, might be buried here, and only had some of my notes on hand. There was a family vault somewhere in Plymouth... but with 250,000 graves at this site, finding anything relevant seemed unlikely. So, I did what my sister and I did when we were trying to find St. Mary Lake on Saltspring Island - I followed my nose.
Turning right off the lane, it quickly became apparent that it would be easy to fall or twist an ankle on the uneven ground obscured by grass. I kept to the right side, paralleling the lane toward the front of the property.
Nearer the front I turned left...
And there it was. To my left I saw the name Stevens. My thoughts ranged from - 'Oh there you are' as if I'd been led right to it, to wonderous disbelief that I was looking at a stone for my great-grandparents. My grandmother's parents died too young, of TB. She barely would have known them, but their deaths caused her life to go in a different direction, to Canada. Maybe she would have stayed in England otherwise.
I had no idea such a stone existed anywhere.
John Stevens is my great-grandfather.
The stone reads:
JOHN STEVENS
BORN JUNE 21st, 1847
DIED DECr. 21st, 1885
ERECTED BY A FEW OF HIS OLD FRIENDS
ALSO ELIZA, WIFE OF THE ABOVE
BORN SEPt. 17th, 1854
DIED JUNE 29th, 1887
GEORGE HERBERT, THEIR CHILD
BORN JANy. 14th, 1879
DIED APRIL 13th, 1881
It wouldn't surprise me that friends of John's would erect a stone. He was involved in a lot of things: the Volunteer Rifles, secretary of the Chamber of Commerce and the Conservative Assoc., treasurer of the Plymouth Lifeboat, secretary and treasurer of the Fisherman's Insurance Society. etc. But are any bodies actually buried there? I later got a disk on Ford Park but the information may not be complete - their names aren't listed. Why didn't I just pay the £10 (or so) fee for a search?
If the birthdate for Eliza is correct, then that means she was married on her 23rd birthday. We don't know a whole lot about Eliza Huxham (Stevens). It's unfortunate that for some reason John Stevens' parents weren't inclined to give their kids middle names. I'm not sure that Eliza had one either. We know that she was from Ivybridge (or Ermington), Devon and that her father, William Henry Huxham, was a butcher. If we're looking at the right census records, then her mother was named Jane (from Calstock, Cornwall) and she had a brother, also named William Henry who also became a butcher, and the family moved to Plymouth when Eliza was a child.
My Great-grandparents and their children
The information on this stone that doesn't fit with ours is the death date for the child, George Herbert Stevens, child number 1 on the page above. We believe the date on this stone is wrong. It definitely says 1879 - 1881 on the stone, but our family info has him at about age 6, not 2, when he died of whooping cough.
It's curious that the males in the above photos all have light hair, while my Grandma and Kate didn't.
I would learn that when one stone is found for a family member, it's good to check nearby to see if there are any more.
As far as I know, these people aren't related but the stone on the ground next to John and Eliza's is of interest because of the name Pardew. Susan Fowler Jones Stevens married into a Pardew family. She was a younger sister of my great-great-grandfather, Thomas Jones Stevens. We know that her husband, Arthur, was a ship owner. I assumed, perhaps erroneously, that his father, John (1803-1861), was too as there was a ship or two called the John Pardew.
TO
THE HONOURED
AND
EVER LOVING MEMORY OF
OUR DEAR MOTHER AND FATHER
PRISCILLA NICHOLLS PARDEW
WHO PASSED AWAY 10th OF MARCH 1933
JOHN ANDREW PARDEW
WHO SUDDENLY PASSED AWAY
13th APRIL 1910 AGED 54
ALSO OF
FRANK ARUNDEL PARDEW
YOUNGEST SON OF THE ABOVE
WHO DIED OF WOUNDS RECEIVED IN ACTION
9th SEPTEMBER 1918 AGED 26
BURIED AT DERNANCOURT, FRANCE
ALSO OF THEIR YOUNGEST DAUGHTER
NINA MARGARET PARDEW
WHO PASSED AWAY
16th APRIL 1916, AGED 21
IN MEMORY ALSO OF
ELIZABETH PARDEW
WHO DIED 18th MARCH 1885 AGED 71
SAMUEL PARDEW
WHO DIED 24th JANUARY 1888 AGED 78
This John Pardew may have been the one was a music teacher, choirmaster, organist and violin soloist. From the net: John Pardew, was a well-known classical violinist in Plymouth during the 19th century. He taught the Prince of Wales the violin, but died at just 53 after a large dinner, having drunk two pints of water which apparently gave him a heart attack.
All the while, a little bird just sat there chattering and keeping me company.
I still hadn't found the vault but it seemed unlikely that I would find anything else astounding on this visit so I stopped in at the office in or next to the church (can't remember which) on my way out and picked up a search form.